Saturday, October 23, 2010

The Schwedding Party

We've chosen a wedding party! We will have 5 ladies and 5 guys to help us celebrate our big day. I've written up a little background info on each of the bridesmaids and a reeeeally little intro to each of our groomsmen. If you notice, we actually have two Best Men.  I like to joke and say that we have a Best Man (Eric Schweitzer) and a Great Man (Mike Corte), but both are technically Co-Best Men. John just couldn't choose between the two (and I can't blame him... they're both awesome). So, without further adieu...


Lauren Ferrara Maid of Honor
Lauren and I have known each other since the day she was born. Though we didn't always have the most loving of relationships in our younger years (i.e. bottle-stealing, gum-stealing, shouting matches, etc.), we have grown to share a beautiful bond that only sisters (15 months apart) could share. I couldn't have asked for a better sister or better person to share my big day with. Even though she probably doesn't realize it, she has taught me patience, unconditional love, and compassion. She currently lives in Coventry, RI and is a wonderful mother to my favorite little niece, Lindsey Marie. 















Kathleen Schweitzer Bridesmaid




Kathleen is probably John's favorite sister and will definitely be one rockin' bridesmaid on the day of our wedding. She has been so friendly and fun since the day we first met (for stir-fry at Crazy Bowls) and has recently become someone I go to often to share wedding planning details. She currently lives in St. Louis and is studying at St. Louis University as an undergrad in communication sciences and disorders. Can't wait to call her sister!















Kate Arsenault Bridesmaid





Kate and I met at a training in 2006 for our summer jobs at Camp Westwood YMCA. We were both camp counselors to kiddos (ages 7-10) and instantly bonded over the craziness of our job. Although I only worked at Westwood for one summer, our relationship continued to strengthen after the job ended. We would hang out in coffee shops, go on shopping sprees, drive around RI, and talk about life, love, and all the in betweens. Although we live over a thousand miles apart, we still share a strong bond, especially in our chosen professions: she's an English teacher in RI while I'm a math teacher in TX. Kate's been a loyal friend since day one and I know I'll be able to rely on her during all this wedding planning stuff!













Emily Gagne Bridesmaid



Emily and I met at URI back in 2005. I was in a sorority, Phi Sigma Sigma, and she was thinking of pledging. The first time we really bonded was at an ugly sweater party (see picture) and were basically inseparable after that. We would spend hours with each other, listening to the Wicked soundtrack, sewing quilts, and just being silly. After Emily's sophomore year, she decided to move back to Maine to enter nursing school, but we continued to stay close. I was honored to be bridesmaid in her wedding about a year a go and now she'll return the favor by being a beautiful bridesmaid at our wedding in July! 













Justine Capraro Bridesmaid



Justine and I go waaay back, to the 7th grade in fact. I remember the day we met so clearly: I walked into English class and the only seats left were at an empty group in the back of the room. Justine left her group to join me in the back and we've been friends ever since. Back in our younger years, we spent endless hours on the phone and hanging out. We would watch movies together, talk about any- and everything, and even take trips to CT (or maybe just one, scary, sleepless trip). As we grew older, our busy schedules took us separate ways, but we continued to stay in touch (through snail-mail, phone calls, facebook, etc), and over two years ago, I was asked to be a bridesmaid in her wedding. It was so wonderful to be a part of her special day and I can't wait to have her be a part of ours! 


















Eric Schweitzer Best Man



Eric is John's little brother. John loves his little brother like, well, a brother. They enjoy video gaming together, mainly of the zombie-killing variety. Eric also looks really good in orange (... and John told me to say that). 










Mike Corte Best Man
John and Mike have known each other since freshman year of undergrad at St. Louis University. They've been besties ever since. As far as I can tell, John looks up to Mike as much as Mike looks up to John. It's really a beautiful thing. Whenever John speaks of Mike Corte, he always speaks in hyperbole (i.e. "Mike Corte once killed a grizzly bear in an arm-wrestling match") and ends with, "Mike Corte, Great Man."










Reuss Anderson Groomsman
Reuss and John also go way back. They've known each other since freshmen year as well. They met in the halls of Marguerite Hall on the SLU campus, becoming good friends instantly. Reuss was studying aviation science, and John, computer science. Recently, John took a trip to Florida to hang out with Reuss for a International Fall Festival at Epcot in Disney. Rental of a bright yellow Corvette and drinks around the "world" ensued. 










Jay Sherfy Groomsman
Jay Sherfy is also a Great Man, according to John and others. John met Jay in Marguerite Hall as well. You could say he was a pseudo-floormate. They've known and enjoyed each other's presence for many years now. This is a picture of them after almost being mauled by a bear. Luckily, they blubbered like little girls and the bear had mercy on them. 










John Derus Groomsman
John and John were neighbors during John's senior year and quickly became good friends. John D. once threw a bag of trash onto John S.'s balcony and it smelled bad. John S. retaliated by doing the same. John S. doesn't actually know why it happened, but it was funny at the time. Their friendship was sealed in an "animated discussion" on the relative merits of Van Halen during different time periods. Also, this picture has no relevance to their relationship, but it's nice... no?


Sunday, October 17, 2010

Wedding blogs are fun!

Hello world wide web!

This is my attempt at becoming a wedding blogger: blogging all the joyful details of the highly anticipated Schweitzer wedding (AKA Schwedding) planning :)

I would be lying if I said I hadn't read other bride-to-be's blogs and wished I could be on their end of the blogging page. The whole wedding planning process just seems like so much fun (and stress too, btw), so why would I miss out on the opportunity to make it even more lively and interesting? Hence, the blog, for your enjoyment and mine!


Although John and I have only been engaged for 2.5 weeks now, we already have a bunch of details nailed down. Thanks to an amazing family and circle of friends, we're going to be able to cut some corners and alieviate stress by utilizing the following:
  • Flowers will be done by my mother's friend, Nikki (a legit florist), who also did the flowers at my older brother's wedding (Matt). She will only charge us for the cost of the flowers.
  • Speaking of my older brother, not only has he offered to make our invitations (he does graphic art) and only charge us for the cost of the materials, he's also going to be our wedding photographer... for free! Check out his amazing work at Matt Ferrara Photography.
  • Oh, and he has a cool friend (Chris) who is probably going to be our DJ. Matt has all the music equipment, since he was in a band for many years, and his friend will DJ from an iPod. Perfectly inexpensive!
  • Engagement photos have already been taken! We had an awesome time with photographer Brandice Pierre (a coworker of mine), who offered to take the pictures for free! She is just getting into couples photography, and wanted to practice on us. Perhaps it's because we're just so darn cute together? Check out our photos at http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2283006&id=14300639&l=b2632f8dc5
  • We've chosen a church! The wedding will be at Christ the King Parish in Kingston, RI, the church on the URI campus. I loved going to mass there during my college years, and it's the place where I really grew in my faith... so naturally, it's the best choice for our wedding mass. What's even more awesome about the church is that they don't charge to have weddings there! They only ask for a donation. Compare that so some churches in Newport that charge over $5,000 just to get married there and I say we got quite the deal!

John and I have also decided on our wedding colors. It had actually been on my mind quite a bit over the past few weeks. I knew that green needed to be a part of our big day (umm... hello! It's not my favorite color, it's my OBSESSION), but I didn't know what to put it with. I also knew that I didn't want to put my bridesmaids in too bright of a color, so any color we chose to go with green was probably going to be worn by the bridesmaids. Anywho, after debating between green/pink, light green/light blue, brown/green, green/coral, green/black, and so many other choices, we decided on the classy, yet fun combo of navy blue and apple green (with hints of teal/turquoise). Check it out... this neat lady over at theperfectpalette.blogspot.com puts together color palettes for to-be brides. I found one that looks a lot like what we're envisioning.



Living 1,794 miles away (yes, I just google mapped that) from the state that we're getting married in is certainly going to pose some challenges, but luckily my momma has accepted the title of Schwedding planner. The big up-in-the-air detail is the reception venue. I currently have my extremely helpful mother running around the state of RI, visiting each of the reception sites John and I are interested in. We're definitely going to have to figure out this detail soon, as the Schwedding is officially less than 9 months away! More to come...