Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Reception Vision & the To-Do List

I've already shared a bunch of these pictures, but here are my ideas for the reception all in one fun inspiration board!


The top left is what I've asked for the cake to look like and the bottom right is what Kate Niemer is working on replicating for our cake topper! The keys up top will have guests names attached on a key card, helping guests to figure out where they'll be seated. The hard-to-see pic in the top right is tables with white table clothes, silver chairs, and blue napkins... the exact look we're going for. I hope it works out with the maroon/yellow rugs and golden chandeliers. Hrmmm. Below that is the tack-the-map board that guests will tack with their spot of origin... we're going to work on that next week. Then there's the head table (love all the candles), the teacups, which will be on a lot of tables, and a view of the courtyard at the Radisson. It's nice to see it all come together like that.

So, am I freaking out right now because the wedding is less than 3 weeks away? No-sir-ree! I'm going to be honest, blogging about the whole planning experience has actually helped me stay on top of all the planning. There aren't many things left to be done, so this bride is one calm cucumber. It also helps that she's had the past 1.5 weeks off from work (teaching) and has more free time ahead leading up to the wedding.

You're probably wondering now, what does Stephanie have left to do in the next 18 days? Well, I'll tell ya. Here's the ta-da to-do list! (I say ta-da because it's very manageable):

Travel home to RI
Perfect and print the programs for the ceremony
Design and print signs for the reception hall
Design and print inserts for the luggage tag favors
Run to the craft store to buy stuff for reception hall decorations
Perfect the seating chart
Make the seating key cards and attach to keys
Make the tack-the-map board
Meet with the DJ
Work on speech for rehearsal dinner
Finish bridesmaids gifts & purchase other gifts
Have a make-up trial run
Have another final fitting with my gown

... and that about sums it up. Yes, you read that last one correctly. After my last fitting (where I claimed on facebook that my dress "fit like a glove"), I tried the gown on again and it just isn't perfect. I think I may have been bloated when I tried it on. Plus, I wasn't super happy with the way it was taken in in a few spots, so basically, I'm going have one last final fitting in RI (at Sassy & Classy) to make sure things are perfect. They'll also be steaming my dress for me! Bye-bye wrinkles. I'm taking my gown with me in a carry-on on the plane home to RI, so the steaming will be a must.

Sorry, I've got to run! Time to work on checking more off that ta-da to-do list!

Saturday, June 25, 2011

DIY Photobooth Project

Well, here we are! About 3 weeks away from the big day and things are progressing nicely.

Recently, I took on a small project to keep myself busy in these days leading up to the wedding. My brother Matt is going to run a photobooth during the dancing hours of the reception. He explained that most of the pictures taken during the dance portion of a reception end up all looking the same. So, instead of snapping away at the sweaty folks of the dance floor, Matt's going to be snapping snazzy photos of our guests in fancy photobooth fashion. He mentioned that I should buy some props. Well, this is where I up the ante... I decided to make some props instead!

I used some shops on etsy for some inspiration...

From etsy user ThePaperStache

From etsy user thelittleblackshop

And then created my own little masterpieces:

The assortment!

Cuttin' out some 'staches. 

I look good with a 'stache and bowtie!

I'll probably purchase a few other props to throw in the mix... maybe a tiara, or a crazy hat, or a feather boa. In the end, I'm just really looking forward to seeing hilarious pictures of our guests gone wild.

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

A Bride on a Budget!

Over the past 9 months, this bride has tried her hardest to stay on a pretty strict budget. And I feel as though now that I'm almost on the other side of it all, I've got some wisdom I can share with those who are just starting to go through this crazy wedding planning thing and help you avoid spending $50,000+ for just one night of fun. I won't break it down penny-by-penny for you, but I will give you some helpful hints for getting to the altar with out breaking your (or your parents') bank.

Set a budget and stick to it.
I can't stress this enough. As soon as my parents gave us our wedding budget, I went on over to weddingwire.com, signed up for a free account, and used their budget planning tool to figure out exactly what amount of money would be spent where. From limos, to flowers, to my gown, to the food... every costly piece of the big day was estimated and accounted for before we started spending any money. That way, I knew I wasn't allowed to fall in love with a $5,000 way before I went crazy trying on gowns, thus preventing me from getting my heart set on something out of the budget. Talk about a stress reducer!

Use your resources.
You may not realize it, but your friends and family are made up of awesome people who are extremely talented in many ways. And I highly encourage you to figure out what these good folks are good at... and then ask them to do it for your wedding! The best part is, most of them will offer their skill to you in place of a wedding gift. A pretty sweet deal, if I do say so myself (and I do). As for me, my wedding planner, florist, photographer, videographer, hair stylist, invitation designer, reception musician/dj, and personal first-dance teacher are all family members, friends, or friends of friends. And I couldn't be a bride on a budget without them.

Dream big, but not too often.
There are going to be some things you just really need to have for your big day. And I'm going to tell you right now... that's totally ok. But, the key is that you can only have a few of these "really important things" on your list. For me, it was chiavari chairs. I had to have them. And by the way, they're not cheap. But, that was basically the only "must have" on my list. Oh, and the limo big enough for the 12-person wedding party. Yes, expensive. But, one of only a few splurges. Once you decide what the big ticket items are going to be, put aside the money for them and then make sure to be more flexible and frugal with pretty much everything else on your wedding-spending list.

Find cheaper alternatives.
Or in other words, shop around before you settle. So, you fell in love with the $5,000 dress even though you knew your budget was 1/5th of that. Oops! Well, the good news is, you can still make it in under your budget and have the gown of your dreams. You'll just have to do some research. Usually you can find used or even unworn wedding gowns for sale online. Or, you can check out your local bridal consignment shop. For me it was Merry-Go-Round in Houston, TX (where I found both my gown and my veil for half of their original prices). Or, even better yet, you can usually find a gown similar to that expensive designer one at a more budget friendly gown shop, just made by a different designer. When you think about it, there aren't many designs out there for gowns, so you're bound to find an almost identical gown made by another designer somewhere out there. And, never forget to check out etsy.com for anything and everything wedding related. The sellers on that site are more than happy to custom make pretty much anything you need for your wedding and usually at reasonable rates.

Do it yourself. 
Don't be afraid to tackle some wedding projects on your own. You can save hundreds (even thousands) just by spending a few extra hours working on something for yourself. For example, if you're not careful, you can spend thousands on your wedding invites alone. Why not design them yourself? There are plenty of sites out there that print them for cheap... or you can buy some cardstock at your favorite paper-carrying shop and print them at home. Then, have a small party with all your bridesmaids and have them help you assemble and address the envelopes. Sure it won't have the fancy, swirly calligraphy, but who's going to keep the envelope anyway? Just be careful with DIY projects. As the bride you've got plenty to do, so don't take on too many tasks for yourself.


Overall, just remember to relax, smile, and have fun. Planning can be stressful, and trust me... it's even more stressful when a strict budget and an over-priced wedding industry are involved. But, if you heed my advice and plan that budget early on in the process, I promise it'll all work out and be 100% worth it in the end.

And if you have any "bride on a budget" tips from planning your own wedding, please feel free to share...

Thursday, June 2, 2011

Words of Wisdom

John and I are in the process of picking out the readings and music for our wedding mass. We're almost certain that this will be the 2nd reading at the wedding. It's beautiful.

Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, heartfelt compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience,bearing with one another and forgiving one another, if one has a grievance against another; as the Lord has forgiven you, so must you also do. And over all these put on love, that is, the bond of perfection. And let the peace of Christ control your hearts, the peace into which you were also called in one body. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, as in all wisdom you teach and admonish one another, singing psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts to God. And whatever you do, in word or in deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.

Colossians 3: 12-17